Will Iowa's Gay Marriage Amendment Hurt Progressives In The Next Election?
By Nicole Belle Wednesday Sep 05, 2007 3:58pmIt's a paradox that Dan Gilgoff looks at in The Politico:
One post-2004 study found that voters to whom gay marriage was a top issue were more than twice as likely to support President Bush if there was a gay marriage ban on the ballot in their state.[..]
The 2006 midterm elections, by contrast, showed that when the gay marriage question is overshadowed by other issues - in that instance, the Iraq war and the rash of Republican scandals - Democrats can win big.
When that happens, gays tend to benefit. The Democratic-controlled House of Representatives passed a bill to expand federal hate crimes protections to homosexuals earlier this year. And unlike recent GOP-controlled Congresses, this one is not planning to take up an amendment to the U.S. Constitution to ban gay marriage.[..]
With the 2008 Iowa presidential caucuses looming, last week's dramatic gay marriage "victory" in Polk County threatens to halt such incremental gains for gay rights.
As conservative religious activists in the Hawkeye State mobilize to amend Iowa's Constitution to ban gay marriage, the Republican presidential candidates best poised to benefit are those most hostile to gay rights: former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney, former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee, and, perhaps, former Tennessee Sen. Fred Thompson.
The Republican candidate most likely to suffer, of course, is the one with the most pro-gay-rights record: Rudy Giuliani. It's not too difficult to imagine ads juxtaposing the former New York mayor with Judge Robert Hanson, who struck down Iowa's Defense of Marriage Act last week, ruling that the state's marriage laws must be "applied in a gender-neutral manner."
Democratic presidential candidates, meanwhile, are being forced by the Polk County decision to carve out nuanced positions on an issue that Kerry proved in 2004 is extremely thorny for his party.









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I thought Romney was in charge in Mass. when they legalized same sex marriage. So he was for it before he was against it.
Dogs and cats living together, mass hysteria.
Seriously, though, is it possible that this issue is played out, and not that big of a deal anymore? The US public has a penchant for only new things (anybody remember port security anymore? Mine safety? Mad cow disease?). Maybe the gay marriage issue won't pack the same punch as it did in 2004.
Umm, no. Progressives don't need the "family values" (gay-basher) vote.
Any move towards legalizing gay marriage will help the GOP.
Screw progressives in the next election. If they can't win elections against the likes of George Bush, they can't win anything. We might as well fight for what we want. Clinton gave us don't ask, don't tell. Politics, you know. Democrats in Congress apologized and backed off a fililbuster, giving us Sam Alito. Fight for what's right and let the politicians worry about themselves.
PNAAC Minister @ 3:
Progressives need the gay-bashers to stay home, because the gay-bashers vote Republican (ironically, in light of recent events). The gay-bashers will go to the polls if they get a gay-bashing issue to vote on, like gay marriage.
Oh My God! My wife is leaving me! This amendment ruined my marriage!
Snark!
Weaseldog @ 7:
Did she leave you for another woman?
Fanon @ 8:
:)
The only thing a bedwetting conservative fears more than a terrorist is gay marriage. Together with terrorism and immigrant bashing, the gay marriage issue is the thing that will send their base to the polls with a pantload causing them to pull the voting lever against their own best interests.
I always thought that when you sent your children off to be killed in an illegal occupation, lost your right to habeas corpus, had your pension stolen by Ken Lay, had your gas price doubled by Dick Cheney, lost your home to heck-of-a-job Brownie, lost your job to China, and lost your healthcare under Bush, the last thing you would care about was if Steve and Gary next door lived in sin.
It's called priorities.
Fanon @ 8:
Reminds me Of Robbie McConnell's tune, "The Mistress"
I think things like the war and Katrina have taken front stage for most people. More and more people are coming around when it comes to approving of gay marriage. Of course there's that 30% percent who still support bush and they will never come around so why pander to them?
The approach in my state is that "English should be the official language" approach, even though all government proceedings are conducted in English anyhow. It's a thinly veiled bigotry initiative, directed primarily against Mexicans. I think we'll see "English as the official language" superseding gay marriage as ballot initiatives in 2008. Gotta turn out the bigots somehow.
A party who favors people who derive their income on the labor of others (dividend income), rather than people working for wages and salaries, needs to come up with non economic issues in order to get these people to vote against their own economic interests. I think a big hole could be blown in their strategy by the Dems targeting the gun lobby with the pitfalls towards the 2nd amendment on account of the "unitary executive" approach where the President can nullify amendments in the name of national security. This would also, of course, require that the Democrats forgo endorsing the notion that amendments, such as the 2nd can by nullified by legislation, and endorsing the concept that the constitution is the supreme law of the land, something they don't seem to want to teach in school these days.
The Repubs need the fundamentalist and their clerics, the gun lobby, and the bigots to succeed. I don't want the bigots, and the fundamentalist can't be reasoned with. I think the gun lobby support for the Repubs could be diminished. We need to be the party that supports the constitution, and either you're for us, or you're against us. By being the party that supports the notion that the constitution is the supreme law of the land, we implicitly support the 4th amendment, which is nearly gone now.
sadly, yes
Rusty Shackleford @ 6:
bingo.
When most of the old feeble minded homo-haters like D. James Kennedy die off, marriage equality will become a reality. It may be a blessing in disguise that the Decider chose not to federally fund stem cell research. It would be a sin to increase the human lifespan when those on the upper end have proven to be so vile.
But this is the kind of calculus conservatives play with, that infuriates many liberals. "do I not support this good thing because it will hurt my votes?"
If it's a worthy cause, we should support it.
They only thing that's going to hurt is the continued kidnapping of democracy by private corporations that tally the votes "for" us.
Until the process of voting can be assured of transparency, then any election is a joke and an insult to citizens who think they live in a democracy.
Gays put Bush back into the white house in 2004. If it hadn't been for the gay lobby trying to force the gay marriage issue onto the front pages like they did, Bush would have had to run on his record (which sucked) rather than on "protecting family values" which acted as a distraction.
If gays had simply waited for a more favorable climate instead of trying for the power play, they might have gotten what they wanted a lot sooner in the long run.
"They only thing that’s going to hurt is the continued kidnapping of democracy by private corporations that tally the votes “for” us."
It's more than that. Corporations control the media, and through media consolidation and other FCC policies to restrain competition, the price of mass communications is so high that only moneyed interests can get their message out. I believe that Hillary, for example is the most heavily corporate financed candidate, and she is the acknowledged front runner.
Still, if the election boils down to a choice between bad and worse, that choice has never been clearer. We got to turn out the vote to vote against "worse".
Ryoko @ 20:
And if so many straights weren't such tiny-minded, despicable bigots, this wouldn't even be an issue.
Ryoko @ 20:
Yeah! They were more concerned with their puny civil rights than they were with who would win the election. Stupid gheys!
Ryoko @ 20:
There were alot more issues that caused the loss than just those related to gays.
Boring Scott @ 11:
A number of religious fundamentalists would tell you that the reason all those bad things are happening is PRECISELY because Steve and Gary are living in sin. We all are being punished for their immorality ... and that God is removing his protective hand from our nation.
Rusty Shackleford @ 6:
I'm responding to this post a second because it's an important concept that people need to wrap their heads around.
When Canadians were digesting the rulings of various courts that struck down laws that prohibited gay marriage, the Conservative party, then out of power, suggested that a national referendum be held to “let the people decide the issue”. This was was clearly a prelude to a constitutional amendment.
The then Prime Minister of the day rejected the notion saying that we do not put fundamental human rights to a vote. It is the responsibility of the government to uphold those rights, not to organize debates about whether they are a good idea or not.
When any branch of a government summons the courage and intelligence to recognize anti-gay legislation for the violation of human rights that it is, we should celebrate that decision. We should not castigate it because those who oppose human rights feel threatened and react.
I think the gay marriage issue ought to be dealt with very carefully with progressives. Having lived in Iowa for most of my life, I can say that there are a lot of Bible-beating wackos out there. While they are in the minority, the other "tolerant" part of Iowans just don't want gay marriage. It's a threat to their religious views. By the way, don't we already have "civil unions"? Can't another human enter into a contract with any other human regardless? Including power of attorney? Just asking.
Rusty Shackleford @ 6:
Great idea! You're right, the Dems should throw gays under the bus. What do the Dems need with the gay vote? I'm sure y'all will be able to win the election without us, so good luck with that. Feel free to shit all over us, it's the treatment we're used to from straights after all. Same 'ol, same 'ol.
Ben @ 28:
Sure. But why should gays have to go to the trouble of contracting for all the rights that accompany marriage when heterosexuals can get those rights so easily by getting married?
Johnny @ 29:
Where did I advocate throwing gays under the bus? I think you misread my post.
Ok, here's the deal.
It's 2007. The generation (as a whole)that was running around stoned and naked at Woodstock espousing peace and tolerance is now about 60 years old---they are becoming "the old people".
Their parents, who are still as a whole more "traditional" are now about 80. As life expectancy is 77.6 or so, more than half of them should be gone now, and every year that goes by takes big digs out of the remainder of that cohort.
This is significant because the elderly vote in disproportionate numbers and are a political force to be reckoned with.....but you can see, "tradition" (and Bill O'Reilley's audience) is dropping in to be clients of the mortuary industry.
Now if you follow my reasoning, in about 5 years (to say a lame duck Democratic president), it will be like twice as easy to get this done. We fire it through congress, the Democratic president signs it, and the fundamentalist freaks (whose ranks will be diminished by progressive economic policies-lots of people turn to the jesus out of despair)....have two years to calm down and realize that the fucking world isn't going to end......just like it didn't when we allowed shopping on Sundays, African Americans to have civil rights, women to vote, etc.
Now conversely, should ya'll (and don't get the idea that I'm not sympathetic to those of you who have this as a primary issue) get pissy and don't turn out to vote for the Democratic candidate, we get four more years of giving the wingnuts the opportunity to destroy the ecosystem, economy, and our civil rights, plus stack the supreme court even further to the right...who will...you guessed it, possibly overrule a future law providing for gay marriage.
So there you have it. Choices are either "good possibility within five years" or "no way in hell".
If it makes you feel any better, there are some lacking freedoms that make me unhappy as well........I'm splitting to Europe until the US grows up.
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Rusty Shackleford @ 31:
I think you misread that I was responding to PNAAC Minister.
Brandon Phyber @ 17:
Same thing with our fucked up healthcare system. I made an analytical post along these lines that disappeared into the ether.
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Shouldn't we be saying that Hillary shouldn't run because it'll offend misogynists, and Obama shouldn't run because it'll offend racists? Or is it only homophobes that we need to be catering to?
Possibly but after last night's GOP debate sans FT in the conservative Granite State, the crowd's applause or booing in response to the gay marriage question seem to indicate more for than against. There were days when gay farm boys had to escape to San Francisco or New York, now they can live comfortable and safe lives in Des Moines or Ames. The days of acute oppression are over. As gay marriage gains acceptance on the periphery it will begin to gain acceptance in the heartland as well. I have two gay male friends in Lexington, KY raising four kids. This is progress.
Johnny @ 35:
Q: Are misogynists a/o racists a voting block of any significance?
A: no.
People who are against gay marriage are though.
Further more gay marriage is an issue not a person.
Boring Scott @ 11:
Exactly, and it should be progressives' priority to keep gay marriage off the ballot altogether, because if it's there, the 'thumpers' will turn out in droves.
CD @ 37:
Gay marriage is an issue that represents homophobia. Someone who would refuse to vote for Hillary just because she's a woman, is a misogynist. Someone who vote refuse to vote for Obama just because he's black, is a racist. Bigotries of all types are usually shared among the same people. The same person who hates gays, will also tend to hate women and blacks. Even if there's more societal pressure to keep the latter two prejudices hidden. And that societal pressure would have no effect in the privacy of a voting booth. So your answer to your posed question is wrong, yes there are just as many misogynists and racists, a bigot is a bigot is a bigot.
Let's face it, you could ask these people, which would they rather have
happen:
"A nuke dropped in a major American city" or "their son announce he was gay" and probably 3/4s would opt for choice one.
This issues needs to be brought out, and called what it is: Hate.
Hate for anything different. It's NO different then hating based on Race or Religion.
These people ARE the Taliban in our midst, evil fanatics that should be called what they are.
Instead, Obama, Hillary, almost ALL the Democrats tip-toe around these sickos like they are other then people who deserve revulsion and scorn.
Remember when Rick Santorium said on the Senate Floor
"Gay Marriage was a greater threat then Terrorism" I wondered
How did any legit reporter NOT start any conversation with him
after that without asking about that?
But, I saw him time after time, and reporters actually treated what
he said as other then Ludicrous garbage.
Pathetic, and shame on our Democratic policticians for not standing
up on this.
We have a Woman and Black Man as our leading candidates, and they
sit silent or waffle on this issue.
The facts were known in 2002. We invaded in 2003. It is 2007. Why is it "news" four (5) years later about what reality was in 2002: "The President knew it was a lie"?
We should have had the chance to discuss this in 2002, before the invasion, not many years after the fact. This isn't oversight. It's rehashing history. This isn't governance. It's recklessness. What does this say about what the President "really knows" about Iran; and are we going to wait until 2012 before we 'discuss' the facts behind an illegal invasion of Iran? This should be on the table now. Impeachment would force this government to confront this President's reckless activity.
Johnny @ 39:
That's a nice bit of writing there but there is still no organized anti-woman or anti-black voting block in this country. There is those a very organized anti-gay marriage voting block out there and if anything connected to homosexuality is put on a ballot they will show up in droves and vote not just against that issue but every other liberal thing on the ballot whereas if there is no gay issue on the ballot only a few of them will show up.
Bigotry is irrational hatred, there's no justifiable reason to hate someone just because they're black, or gay, or a woman. It's a form of insanity, someone who has an irrational hatred of one group, doesn't view any group they don't personally belong to in a rational matter.
Here come those Power Players now!
And here they are getting married -- destroying all of Western Civilization with their love for each other.
I read the opinion and it looks extremely solid with the result flowing from the evidence presented and the existing constitutional precedents under the Iowa constitution. I accordingly find it disturbing that some suggest that politics, rather than the facts and law, should have provided the basis for Judge Robert Hanson's opinion, or for that of the Iowa Supreme Court as the case goes up on appeal.
I am, on the other hand, extremely gratified to see that Judge Robert Hanson is as principled as his deceased father, the Honorable William C. Hanson. I had the pleasure of working for Judge William C. Hanson as a Judicial Law Clerk, a position I sought specifically because of his well earned reputation of issuing principled decisions that were grounded in the law and constitution regardless of how politically popular those decisions may be. And I'm not the only one who felt this way. Former President Kennedy appointed William C. Hanson to the federal bench, despite the fact that Hanson was a Republican, because of his adherence to the law over political opinion. It thrills me to no end to see that his son shares those same traits.
Rusty Shackleford @ 23:
You don't get it, do you? When gays decided to make marriage an issue, they gave GW a platform to run on in 2004. They shot themselves in the foot. If they had simply waited until Kerry was elected, they would have had better luck overturning the marriage. Instead, they empowered their worst opponent. It was a stupid political move on the part of gays which backfired badly and only served to strengthen the religious fundies power grab.
So, by striking down a decade-old law this 'county judge' just reshaped the presidential races of both parties.
I'm happy for the gay couples who will benefit, but ironically I have the most conservative position of all. I'd like to see government get completely out of the marriage biz. Let everyone, gay and straight, approach the government equally for their contracts without reservation, save being a citizen and of legal age. Let them approach the church, club, or shaman of their choice for marriage--and their divorce.
But whatever the case, this is the reality. A lone judge in Polk County Iowa has reshaped the nation's presidential race, and in doing so he will surely send right-wing, gay-bashing, budget-busting, neanderthal-thinking Republicans to the voting booth in droves, and the saddest part, I believe, is that we'll soon see this in other states. - Wake up!
CD @ 42:
Why do they have to be organized? All they have to do is pull the curtain on the voting both and make sure to vote a straight Repug ticket to punish the Dems for nominating "that bitch" or "that N-word." Who decides which group is expendable? Be consistent, or be a hypocrite. If you're going to advocate throwing one disenfranchised group under the bus, you have to advocate the same for all non-white heterosexual males.
Johnny @ 49:
For this segment of society to be truly effective their organizers have to tell them how to vote.
If the ringleaders openly say don't vote for him he's black they're toast.
The same does not apply (at this point) to sexual issues.
Just as a heads up, there is no process for citizen-initiated constitutional amendments in Iowa, and the state legislature went blue in 2006 (for the first time since the late forties). So unless the Democratic legislature decides to put the amendment on the ballot, it will not be there for the '08 election (why would they want to shatter their newfound majority by drawing out all the R's?). Linked above is the full text of the constitution, or check the wiki article on Wisconsin's constitution. They have a similar amendment process.
So very little chance of the amendment reaching the ballot, is my wager. This whole event is exactly why I had to back away from HRC this cycle - we're giving them elections by asking for our rights, and people are dying. Enough.
CD @ 50:
Come on, bigotry's not that complicated. Misogynist don't need to be told not to vote for Hillary because she's a woman, 43% of population say they would never vote for her. And while Hillary is quite unpopular with progressives for being too corporate/DLC, it's not progressives who are saying they would NEVER vote for her. If she were the nominee, we'd hold our noses and vote for her. That 43% is largely people who hate women. So by not catering to misogynists and throwing Hillary under the bus, we're left with a tiny margin of error in regaining the White House. That 7% of votes that are in play. Who decides that risk is acceptable, while risking a backlash from homophobes isn't? You aren't consistent, because it's more socially acceptable to express hostility towards gays, then blacks and women.
Johnny @ 53:
You don't know how politics works do?
[Deleted. Keep it civil]
Will it hurt them? Only if they're wimps about it.
So, probably, yes.
Maybe someday "progressives" will learn they have to be just as tough as the other side in order to win. And that means they have to say they are FOR GAY MARRIAGE, period.
CD @ 54:
Ryoko @ 48:
Ryoko @ 48:
Sadly politics is alot like a Chess game.
Yes, gays really need to sit in the back of the bus until it is a convenient time for them to beg for equality. They need to wait until the progressives have no opposition to their other more pressing causes.
I stood out there with the demonstrators before we attacked Iraq opposing Bush. I sent money to the Democratic candidates. I wrote the letters to the editors against these cretins who have been destroying our country. I share the same concerns other liberals do about the state of politics today. But I am not going to wait for the time to be ripe to demand justice. It is now.
candideinnc @ 60:
You raise an interesting point.
Have gays as a group ever been forced to sit in the back of the bus?
Why did no one respond to Ben's batshit crazy question, " don’t we already have “civil unions?"
The answer Ben is NO. We don't already have civil unions in Iowa. We only have civil unions in two states in America.
As for any two people being allowed to make a contract, you really are one ignorant f*ck aren't you? It would take MANY thousands of dollars to get just a few of the 1,300+ rights that automatically come with marriage. Even then, ANY contract can be, and in gay partnerships OFTEN is, challenged and overruled in court on behalf of family members who had nothing to do with their gay child/brother/parent when they were alive.
I'm really stunned at some of the comments here. I hear people who call themselves progressives/liberals/Democrats arguing about how inappropriate it is for a law abiding, tax paying segment of our community to fight for EQUAL rights.
There is nothing more infuriating to me than being lectured by some asshole that is married (often to his/her 2nd, 3rd, 4th spouse) about how I need to stop fighting for the right to marry because the time isn't right.
If that's you, do me a favor and STFU!!!!!
Every two years, closeted gay-bashers are lured from their couches with the prospect of voting against one pro-gay initiative for an anti-gay initiative or another, then for the next 729 days none of what the homosexual community does even TOUCHES their lives.
Dumbasses:
Please. Stay on your couches. You are missing more fine network programming by going to the poles. We don't need your one-issue votin' fingers jamming up real political discourse.
Yes, it will.
And I am really sorry to say this, but so will Hillary if she's the nominee.
Gay marriage and Hillary will give the Conservatives renewed reasons to show up at the polls, rather than stay home, disillusioned with the Repiglicans. They will never vote with us, so we need to keep them home...
They want her to be the nominee, which is why they say she's "viable". They are scared of Obama and Edwards...because they can win.
BuffyFan @ 67:
I think Obama would have similarly high negative numbers if he was the front-runner. Racism is alive and well in Amerikkka. I'm sure we could still win running a woman or person of color, just like I'm sure we can still win without abandoning our commitment to equality. Hillary or Obama running on the top of the ticket, the lingering issue of gay marriage, are all capable of fomenting a backlash, so it isn't fair to single out gay rights as the threat. In each case, we should stand firm for the core Democratic principle of equality. Why should we be panicking and looking for scapegoats with the Repugs' numbers so far in the toilet anyway?
Zeke @ 60:
Amen Zeke, these people have so much nerve to think they have the right to lecture us about gay rights, when they've had their full civil rights since at least 1964 (for racial minorities) and since birth for whites. And hi from "the road", sweetie.
Yes but why an amendment? Why not normal legislation? This is a PR wet dream for the wingnuts and self inflicted wound for progressives.
Gee, the Politico's spinning a situation where we've got 57% of the American public supporting equal marriage rights for gays into something harmful for Democrats?
That homophobic voter who's not already in the Republican camp is non-existent and the independents are now seeing portrayals of gays as normal - even good - people. Did you see the cheerleader's sidekick on Heroes?
It gives an opportunity for candidates to flub by trying to appease the religious bigots by not supporting equal marriage rights clearly, but it's already become an issue that the majority of americans supports gay equality.
Ryoko @ 48:
Yes - I get it. I understand the political dynamics. In my original post to PNAAC I was just explaining, not approving of, those dynamics. I do NOT think gays should make advocacy for their civil rights contingent on whatever happens to be politically expedient for progressives at the moment.
In other words, I agree with Candide @ 58 and Zeke @ 60 above.
Anyway, the cat's out of the bag now. This whole argument is moot. Gay marriage is already a reliable hot-button issue for conservatives no matter what "the gays" (as if they are a monolithic bloc that shares a single brain) decide to do.
CD @ 59:
In addition to being denied the civil right of marriage, until 2003 it was illegal in many states for gay people even to have sex with each other.
We weren't even allowed ON the bus! Get clue and get a grip!
Lets see:
- When American troops freed the prisoners from concentration camps in Germany - they dumped the gays into other concentration camps and jails.
- Gays were subject to lobotomies and electro-shock therapy to try and 'treat' them.
- Gays were subject to arrest and imprisonment for loving their partners before Lawrence vs. Texas.
- Gays frequently have their partner's power of attorney challenged by family members and lose in court.
- Gays still can't enter into marriage or civil unions with their partners if they are serving in the military.
There's more, but I wonder, does injustice need to pass a certain threshold with you for you to consider whether it's an injustice worth addressing? Or is the fact that it's an injustice sufficient to address it?
Here in Texas the cops are trying to close misogynist parlours.
Very few people cast their vote based on this issue, UNLESS there isnt a big divergence between the candidates on the war. Progressives can pick up alot of social conservatives if they promise to end the war. We saw in the last presidential what happens when the candidates DONT differ markedly on the war.
I have two more comments/observations to make.
First of all, racism and homophobia, are certainly not identical but that doesn't mean that they aren't closely related in foundation, source, purpose, practice and result.
I may have never been made to literally ride in the back of the bus. I freely admit that. As someone listed about however, there are many ways that gays are forced to the back of the bus in other ways. Here is another example. As far as I know, no black person has ever been thrown out of his home, and disowned by his parents because of his race. Black children, when verbally or physically attacked by racists in school, or on the playground or on the school bus, go home and tell their parents, who take action on their behalf, who fight for them, who hold them and commiserate with them, and share stories with them and tell them, "I know EXACTLY how you feel. I went through the same thing at your age but look how I turned out. You have my support. You'll be OK." What do gay kids, who face homophobic abuse at school, do when they come home to their homophobic parents? They suffer in fear and silence, take more abuse, run away or commit suicide. The people closest to them, their family, are often the people who abuse them, neglect them and harass them most. I know, that kid was ME growing up in Mississippi.
Does that in ANY way negate, diminish or trivialize the racism that African-Americans face. ABSOLUTELY NOT. In my case, being gay made me MUCH more understanding of the struggle of African-Americans, even though I was a well-to-do white kid in Mississippi. My experience pushed me to loudly and publicly challenge racism in a VERY hostile environment. I was a civil rights activist LONG before I was a gay rights activist.
My point with that rant is to show that you don't have to literally be put in the back of a bus to understand the CONCEPT of riding in the back of the bus.
My second point is this: Why does it seem that the focus here is to scold, chastise and blame gay people rather than to challenge why the Democratic Party has been such pussies in this “culture war” Why is the focus on getting the gays to sit down, shut up and stop stirring trouble with their pleas for equality and equal access GUARANTEED in our state and national constitutions; while continuing to volunteer and send their money of course. Why is the focus NOT on the fact that we should be able to fire up the Democratic base AT LEAST as well with a platform of fairness and equality as the Republican base can on the platform of discrimination and exclusion?
Does anyone really believe that the Republicans would have been so successful if the Democrats hadn’t run for cover, throwing the gays (one of their most loyal constituencies) under the bus AND letting the Republicans TOTALLY, 100% control the debate?
And you’re scolding the GAYS? SHAME ON YOU!
It seems to me that your beef should be with the spineless Democratic politicians and our apathetic, lazy LIBERAL base who can't seem to get the least bit fired up to support ALL tax paying, law abiding citizens’ right to full citizenship and NOT with the gay people who have the audacity to ask for their rightful piece of the pie.
Now, where do YOU go from here? Are you going to fight like warriors or tuck you tail between your legs and run away like a bitch AGAIN afraid of the religious right whose numbers and power have ALWAYS been over-stated. MOST of their power comes from the fact that they’ve convinced people that they’re powerful. Every time we have these, “Oooo, we’ve stirred up the big, bad, Bible thumping beast. WE’RE DOOMED, WE’RE DOOMED” discussions we perpetuate that myth.
I swear, sometimes I would give my left nut for a Democrat with some frickin’ balls!
I have two more comments/observations to make.
First of all, racism and homophobia, are certainly not identical but that doesn't mean that they aren't closely related in foundation, source, purpose, practice and result.
I may have never been made to literally ride in the back of the bus. I freely admit that. As someone listed about however, there are many ways that gays are forced to the back of the bus in other ways. Here is another example. As far as I know, no black person has ever been thrown out of his home, and disowned by his parents because of his race. Black children, when verbally or physically attacked by racists in school, or on the playground or on the school bus, go home and tell their parents, who take action on their behalf, who fight for them, who hold them and commiserate with them, and share stories with them and tell them, "I know EXACTLY how you feel. I went through the same thing at your age but look how I turned out. You have my support. You'll be OK." What do gay kids, who face homophobic abuse at school, do when they come home to their homophobic parents? They suffer in fear and silence, take more abuse, run away or commit suicide. The people closest to them, their family, are often the people who abuse them, neglect them and harass them most. I know, that kid was ME growing up in Mississippi.
Does that in ANY way negate, diminish or trivialize the racism that African-Americans face. ABSOLUTELY NOT. In my case, being gay made me MUCH more understanding of the struggle of African-Americans, even though I was a well-to-do white kid in Mississippi. My experience pushed me to loudly and publicly challenge racism in a VERY hostile environment. I was a civil rights activist LONG before I was a gay rights activist.
My point with that rant is to show that you don't have to literally be put in the back of a bus to understand the CONCEPT of riding in the back of the bus.
My second point is this: Why does it seem that the focus here is to scold, chastise and blame gay people rather than to challenge why the Democratic Party has been such pussies in this “culture war” Why is the focus on getting the gays to sit down, shut up and stop stirring trouble with their pleas for equality and equal access GUARANTEED in our state and national constitutions; while continuing to volunteer and send their money of course. Why is the focus NOT on the fact that we should be able to fire up the Democratic base AT LEAST as well with a platform of fairness and equality as the Republican base can on the platform of discrimination and exclusion?
Does anyone really believe that the Republicans would have been so successful if the Democrats hadn’t run for cover, throwing the gays (one of their most loyal constituencies) under the bus AND letting the Republicans TOTALLY, 100% control the debate?
And you’re scolding the GAYS? SHAME ON YOU!
It seems to me that your beef should be with the spineless Democratic politicians and our apathetic, lazy LIBERAL base who can't seem to get the least bit fired up to support ALL tax paying, law abiding citizens’ right to full citizenship and NOT with the gay people who have the audacity to ask for their rightful piece of the pie.
Now, where do YOU go from here? Are you going to fight like warriors or tuck you tail between your legs and run away like a bitch AGAIN afraid of the religious right whose numbers and power have ALWAYS been over-stated. MOST of their power comes from the fact that they’ve convinced people that they’re powerful. Every time we have these, “Oooo, we’ve stirred up the big, bad, Bible thumping beast. WE’RE DOOMED, WE’RE DOOMED” discussions we perpetuate that myth.
I swear, sometimes I would give my left nut for just ONE Democrat with some frickin’ balls! I'm so sick of Chicken Little, "the sky is falling, the sky is falling" Democrats, I could spit.
The "gays have never had to sit at the back of the bus" comment was outrageous. I mean how willfully clueless can you get, in a world this saturated with blatant, unrelenting homophobia, and someone has the nerve to act like they don't see any of it. Yes it's been just wonderful growing up gay in America "CD", thanks so much for asking.
Rusty Shackleford @ 68:
and is that the back of the bus?
David Ehrenstein @ 69:
Oh so there were signs that said "gay people in back"?
I didn't think so.
Johnny @ 75:
Nice talking points kid but you have alot of growing up to do before anyone takes you seriously.
CD @ 78:
I held back from saying it before, but no more, you're a homophobe. And I had spotted you as one long before this thread.
I have two more comments/observations to make.
First of all, racism and homophobia, are certainly not identical but that doesn't mean that they aren't closely related in foundation, source, purpose, practice and result.
I may have never been made to literally ride in the back of the bus. I freely admit that. As someone listed about however, there are many ways that gays are forced to the back of the bus in other ways. Here is another example. As far as I know, no black person has ever been thrown out of his home, and disowned by his parents because of his race. Black children, when verbally or physically attacked by racists in school, or on the playground or on the school bus, go home and tell their parents, who take action on their behalf, who fight for them, who hold them and commiserate with them, and share stories with them and tell them, "I know EXACTLY how you feel. I went through the same thing at your age but look how I turned out. You have my support. You'll be OK." What do gay kids, who face homophobic abuse at school, do when they come home to their homophobic parents? They suffer in fear and silence, take more abuse, run away or commit suicide. The people closest to them, their family, are often the people who abuse them, neglect them and harass them most. I know, that kid was ME growing up in Mississippi.
Does that in ANY way negate, diminish or trivialize the racism that African-Americans face. ABSOLUTELY NOT. In my case, being gay made me MUCH more understanding of the struggle of African-Americans, even though I was a well-to-do white kid in Mississippi. My experience pushed me to loudly and publicly challenge racism in a VERY hostile environment. I was a civil rights activist LONG before I was a gay rights activist.
My point with that rant is to show that you don't have to literally be put in the back of a bus to understand the CONCEPT of riding in the back of the bus.
My second point is this: Why does it seem that the focus here is to scold, chastise and blame gay people rather than to challenge why the Democratic Party has been such pussies in this “culture war” Why is the focus on getting the gays to sit down, shut up and stop stirring trouble with their pleas for equality and equal access GUARANTEED in our state and national constitutions; while continuing to volunteer and send their money of course. Why is the focus NOT on the fact that we should be able to fire up the Democratic base AT LEAST as well with a platform of fairness and equality as the Republican base can on the platform of discrimination and exclusion?
Does anyone really believe that the Republicans would have been so successful if the Democrats hadn’t run for cover, throwing the gays (one of their most loyal constituencies) under the bus AND letting the Republicans TOTALLY, 100% control the debate?
And you’re scolding the GAYS? SHAME ON YOU!
It seems to me that your beef should be with the spineless Democratic politicians and our apathetic, lazy LIBERAL base who can't seem to get the least bit fired up to support ALL tax paying, law abiding citizens’ right to full citizenship and NOT with the gay people who have the audacity to ask for their rightful piece of the pie.
Shoulda, coulda, woulda. It’s time to move forward with the reality on the ground. The marriage equality has been (I believe RIGHTLY) made. Where do we go from here. Where do YOU go from here? Are you going to fight like warriors or tuck you tail between your legs and run away like a bitch AGAIN afraid of the puffed up, paper tiger, religious right; whose numbers and power have ALWAYS been over-stated. MOST of their power comes from the fact that they’ve convinced people that they’re powerful. Every time we have these, “Oooo, we’ve stirred up the big, bad, Bible-thumping Beast. WE’RE DOOMED, WE’RE DOOMED” discussions we perpetuate that myth.
I swear, sometimes I would give my left nut for JUST ONE Democrat with some frickin’ balls!
Sorry for the multiple, multiple, multiple posts.
When I tried to post the comment yesterday I was told there was an error so I tried again. This happened three times and then I gave up.
Then today I come back and my comment has been posted multiple times.
Sorry.
Well it's a great post anyway, bears repeating!
One more "back of the bus" fact about GLBT people. YEARS after the civil rights act was passed and years after the Supreme Court declared it unconstitutional to segregate by race it was perfectly legal, and common, to refuse services and accomodations to GLBT people or to not hire them, or to fire them for no other reason than their sexual orientation. Until VERY recently it was legal to do these things in 90% of the country. Even now it is perfectly legal to do these things in about half the states in the US.
There are many ways to ride in the back of the bus.
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