I don't think there is much to add that hasn't been written or spoken about in the past fifteen years regarding Kurt Cobain. It doesn't seem that long ago - almost yesterday. The shock and loss are endless, and the "might've beens" and "could've beens" will stretch as far as the eye will ever see.
So, it's just the moment here, the event. The shock in the voice and the awkward forming of words, bringing news to the stunned.
The reports here are all from April 8th, the day the body was discovered. It had been determined that the actual suicide took place on April 5th.
Pick either day, the sadness is the same.