I Need To Say Something About Paula Deen I am Paula Deen’s age and I live in the South. I have not used the N word since I was 6 years old. By Juanita Jean 06/24/13 01:00 pm sent me this to read. You will feel far less sympathy for Deen after reading this. So, Paula, screw you. Not all Southern women of a certain age are a bunch of classless witches. That’s what I have to say about Paula Deen.