Midday Open Thread with Brian Gallivan -- Sassy Gay Friend
Hello, amigos. Long time reader, first time poster.
My name's Andy Cobb, I'm pleased as punch and honored that John asked me to post here on occasion. Many thanks to the C&L team for giving me a chance to play a bit in this cool thing they've created and work so hard to maintain. That's not me all naked in that video up there, that's Brian Gallivan. More about him in a second, but first, me me meeeeee:
I'm an LA-based comic and actor, and I've been writing and directing videos for a while with a satirical/political bent. John, Bluegal, and the other folks here have been kind enough to post many of them here for your viewing pleasure. I'll bring you satirical and comedic bits from time to time. I often work with Second City on video projects, that's a theater company I worked with in Chicago and work with now in their burgeoning LA video dealie-do, called The Second City Network.
This bit has been made with them by the aforementioned talented tall glass of water named Brian Gallivan.
Brian has developed a great character called "Sassy Gay Friend" that has become one of those "viral franchiseable characters" that the entertainment industry covets so dearly. It's been put on the teevee, seen millions of times on the web, and widely discussed by his many rabid young fans.
C&L's ever-vigilant Bluegal posted the first installment of this series, in which SGF attempts to counsel Ophelia from Hamlet. Since then he's covered Othello and Romeo and Juliet, to fine effect.
I sat down to talk a bit with (the relatively non-sassy) Brian for a talk about his bit...
Me: Hi, Brian.
Brian: Hello, Andrew.
Me: You're releasing the new installment of your Sassy Gay Friend bit. Why Adam and Eve?
Brian: I wanted to branch out from Shakespeare, and made a list of all
of the ladies from history and literature.
Me: All of them?
Brian: All of them. Took forever. Eve had a lot to say as the first
woman and all. And part of me wants to start at the core of a
character, and have ladies make really smart choices. And if Eve had
made very smart choices it could change all of history.
Me: Your stuff tends to be very high reference, you don't go for a lot
of pop culture gags or ad parodies or anything. What makes you go
with these smarter gags?
Brian: I went to graduate school, have a masters in literature, and I paved my own way--through loans and whatever--and I have to get my money's worth. (Laughs). I'm not using it except in my sketch comedy and
improv.
Me: So you're living up to your college debt.
Brian: Right. I do love reading and literature, and I've always loved
writing sketches that deal with history and literary figures.
Me: People have really responded to this character. How does it differ to have a successful bit on the internet as opposed to doing the same bit
onstage at Second City?
Brian: It's really amazing, there's just so many more people. (Laughs) I had done this character in a show that ran for twelve months...then you realize, when you put it on the internet millions of people can see it. I resisted that for a long time, because I love live performance. But there's something about finding your version and putting it up, and it's just there...
Me: Like a document.
Brian: It's like a document, and it's there, and you don't have to do anything for people to enjoy it.
Me: Some actors actively work very hard to conceal their sexuality in
Hollywood, you dove in with both feet. Has that had an effect on your life and career?
Brian: Well, I think Sassy Gay Friend has been the thing that got me
interviewed by people like yourself...so, we'll see. I just want to
work, I don't care. So, hopefully I can still...I've played husbands
in commercials.
Me: I've seen your work, it's fantastic.
Brian: I've played straight guys buying refrigerators.
Me: I saw that. I totally believed that A, you like refrigerators, and B, you like vaginas. Kudos.
Brian: I'm fine with people knowing that I'm gay. There's been a lot
of controversy about that with Sean Hayes and the like. I feel like
even if this led to me just playing gay parts and only see me as a gay
man, that would be more parts than I was getting before. (Laughs).
Me: Anything else you'd like to add?
Brian: I apologize that people will see a lot of my pasty
Irish-American flesh in the new Sassy Gay Friend.
Me: Your flesh looks great. And it's a terrific bit. Thanks Brian.
Brian: Thank you.


Do gay men have gay best friends?
Diabolus est Deus Inversus
...is that a serious question?
Looking forward to your posts, Andy!
uh.
yes.
just lost one this past week to cancer.
I really enjoyed that. Everyone needs a sassy gay friend!
he's my sister's sassy gay friend too.
And he makes an incredible Liza Minnelli. Even though he's about a half foot taller than her.
me-oww!
Me too. I do have some sassy gay friends. Lucky me.
far left loon >.<
Any chance for a sassy gay friend version of Die Leiden des Jungen Werthers?
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I saw Brian Gallivan back in '06 at Second City in Chicago. It was in the review Iraqtile Dysfunction and he was one of the funnier players in it.
If BP can't destroy the environment with impunity, how can any of us be free?
Is a funny dude, isn't he? He's real smooth onstage, it's great--he's like a comedy panther.
...a very quick wit.
Would love to see another cast member from that, Marybeth Monroe, in something else, too.
If BP can't destroy the environment with impunity, how can any of us be free?
...had to Google it. Love it.
Brian's contemplating new ways for Sassy to go, he might dig it--he loves high reference stuff.
Thanks, Pauleky and calgarylady, I've always loved this site and I'm excited to post some bits.
I only read it because it was one of the four books the monster claimed as his favorite in Frankenstein,
I guess he wasn't using Bush's reading list...
I still think that Frankenstein's friendship with Henry Clerval was a tad too...you know...
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Waddya think of these two guys:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNpF5KMQo14&fe...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WwlWgMTCp8w&fe...
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here's Buddy Cole:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqhBqLHnsT4
How about Lois Lane with her gay best friend, Superman?
Anything would be better than that Brendan Routh version.
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http://www.bigozine2.com/features08/Aimages/T...
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aWNUoaQmjqo/SIlnk96...
http://nihilobstat.info/wp-content/uploads/20...
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_XKZzywxP6P4/SJEbRBO...
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/48/108585122_1...
http://luchins.com/dickery/Batman65gay.jpg
(Okay, now even I'm bored...)
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could she use a sassy gay best friend?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=472Dqz9ZYo4&pl...
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Whoa, Adam!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oa3j1qIVito&fe...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5F06bgKZgJ8&fe...
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I have to go now to get my pedicure and have my poster framed.
I got it from Marie Laveau's House Of Voodoo in New Orleans last week.
I gonna put it up in my bedroom, because my cleaning woman is from Trinidad and such things spook her...
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I'm gonna do some gardening right now. See ya later!
"What are you doing? What are you doing?" Hilarious.
Can't wait to see more!
but these jerks in Toronto that are supposed "protestors" of the G20 meeting are really pissing me right off. Its always a few goofs who turn violent and do other stupid shit like throw urine and feces at people. It gives the vast majority of the legitimate peaceful protestors a bad name and discredits the whole anti-globalist movement.
You mean the police agent provocateurs?
Isn't that when cops dress like hookers?
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Spill Baby Spill http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShxhzwNNlBs&fe...
Shill Baby Shill http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXNdc983PeY
Shrill Baby Shrill http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-10722-Aust...
...and you have very funny friends. Please keep 'em coming.
Uhhh...The posts & videos, that is.
Don't try to confuse the issue with half-truths and gorilla dust.
Hello, Andy. I'm a 50 year old gay male from the northeast. I just watched your piece.
You and your act are tired--pasty paunch, tacky scarf, and all.
If this is "gay" humor, then "gay" humor is moribund.
Sorry. "Acting like a ******" is funny to straights who like a funny ****** friend, but it ain't funny to me.
EDIT: So. A homosexual writer isn't allowed to type "******" on this site without Big Brother taking over and scrubbing it?
Pathetic.
[It's not a matter of who's using the word. It was being cast around as an epithet by trolls, so we put it in the auto-censored list, and it pops up as stars no matter who uses it in the comments section- no exceptions. Site Monitor]
I'm a 50-year-old gay from Canada and I loved the Sassy Gay Friend sketches so much I watched all 5 on Youtube. Maybe Canada is just more chilled out. (Well, that goes without saying, but... )
far left loon >.<
I emailed one to my sister in Vancouver, too. She'll love it. Did I mention I'm visiting there next month?
far left loon >.<
Funny how you want gay respect, but use an epithet to get in everyone's face about it. Well not really funny.
me-oww!
...seriously, dude. So you're a macho guy that's offended by "tacky gay slur deleted" -acting gay men. That really says more about you than it does them.
The gay community is as diverse as the straight community. It's a wonder we get anywhere without all the backbiting and hatred that goes on within the community. Take a good long look at yourself in the mirror, there, damsel (interesting name for an allegedly macho guy such as yourself) - I think you're having a problem liking what you're seeing.
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